{"id":395,"date":"2011-11-06T19:01:36","date_gmt":"2011-11-06T19:01:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/myrealmind.com\/blog\/?p=395"},"modified":"2022-05-15T00:43:51","modified_gmt":"2022-05-15T00:43:51","slug":"change-is-inevitable-growth-is-optional","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.myrealmind.com\/blog\/2011\/11\/06\/change-is-inevitable-growth-is-optional\/","title":{"rendered":"Change is inevitable, Growth is optional"},"content":{"rendered":"

The last one year has been full of changes. Not just for me but the world around me. Just the magnitude of the things have increased so dramatically. From all-sweeping tsunamis<\/strong> to earth-shattering earthquakes<\/strong>, we have seen them all in the last one year. We have also see uprisings and struggles at the scale we never had before. We are witnessing change all around.<\/p>\n

And so it is with me, who has changed too. I look at myself a year ago and there’s almost a mild mischevious grin on my face. I was just very naive maybe or just young. I have grown in this one year. I have experienced alot maybe as much as the 2nd\/3rd year of college put together. You might even add the few months at Cisco and still wont be able to match the last 10 months or so.
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\nI am not sure what caused this change in the world. But then the nature itself is the cause and effect of the change. But what about me? How did I change? There must be something. While i was working last year at Cisco I felt that life had almost come to point of stagnation. There was no change, just a routine.<\/p>\n

So it was a routine life when suddenly something triggered. I got a new job. The new job brought new experiences and also it brought new set of people in my life. Suddenly there was a lot of change. I was almost overwhelmed to the point of not being able to digest all of this!<\/p>\n

When you change, you may grow. And I have grown ( Not in height really! ). A lot of people have told me I have grown ( maybe become more mature ) and that’s what I wonder about. You just dont grow, there has to be someone to nurture you for your growth. Maybe I did I find someone to care for me like a gardener \ud83d\ude1b<\/p>\n

I feel more confident now. The key to that is self-contentment. I feel more secure about my own self probably. I do not feel the need to want someone else’s approval on what I do.<\/p>\n

I feel I am more aware now. Like there is a heightened subconscious feeling of everything around me. I can pick up subtle trends and use them as a source of information.<\/p>\n

I probably have rediscovered emotions. Like feelings! A year ago I would laugh at the thought of being emotional. Yet here I am! I can connect and disconnect with people now unlike the sense of detachment before. I can feel happy and I can also feel sad. Almost to the extreme’s in both case.<\/p>\n

Definitely it is all a result of the person who has helped me grown. The changes are something perceptible to people who have known me over a year or so. And this post is dedicated to THE CHANGE BRINGER!<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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